Thursday, December 13, 2007

All I want for Christmas.....

...is a Vietnamese passport for Jonah. It looks like my wish will be granted.

Today I went to apply for Jonah's Vietnamese passport. He needs the passport before we can get his medical exam. He needs the medical exam and his passport before we can fly up to Hanoi to complete the Visa application process with the US consulate.

The government office is only a few blocks from the hotel that we are staying at, so we walked over to the office. Please note, that when I say walked, I mean that I took my life into my own hands crossing the street. I know I have not posted any good traffic shots yet, but I will do that soon so you can all get an idea of what I am talking about. In fact, I think we need to video it.

Our adoption agency is all over what we need to do to complete various parts of the process, however, they have been doing the passport applications up in Hanoi with the past few families. Now that the visa application process has changed slightly, there is not as much need for us to rush up to Hanoi, so we are staying in the south longer. When we handed in our applications for the passports, the official did not like how the agency had filled out all the paper work....even though it was the way they requested it up in Hanoi. So we had to return to the Hotel and do a little art project, cutting and pasting passport photos onto different forms and making additional copies. We returned at 11:15am and they were already closed for lunch. Government offices in Vietname typically close for lunch for two hours. We returned at 1:15 and were able to submit the applications. When you submit the application, they give you a date that you can come and pick up the passport. Ours is Christmas Day.

This was a little disappointing. Normally, the passport application is supposed to take 5 business days...this is more like 9. Also, we cannot progress any further with any of the steps of our adoption until this has been completed and the passport is in hand. So we will be returning at 6:30am on Christmas day to pick up Jonah's passport. The disappointing part is that this makes it practically impossible for us to finish the entire process in time for our planned departure date. As a result, Betsy and Bea will probably have to stay in Vietnam longer and Olivia and I will come home on the scheduled date of December 29th.

The silver lining to this is that we have nothing to do for 12 days but wait....and we have decided to do our waiting at a beach resort called Bamboo village in a beautiful part of of Southern Vietnam. We are going to leave on Saturday and stay down there for a week. This should be a great way to just spend time together bonding as a new family It is a little stressful being in the city because you cannot really get outside much since it is so crowded and it gets really old hanging out in a hotel room. We will still have time to enjoy more of the sights in HCMC after we return on Saturday and before we head up to Hanoi.

Jonah is getting more and more comfortable with his surroundings...me included. Although, there are certain things that freak him out. One of them being elevators. He has never had occasion to be in a cramped space like that and I think it is a little scary. He LOVES watermelon and ate a lot of that at breakfast this morning. We got more smiles out of him tonight than we have since we met him which was an encouraging step forward, although he remains extremely hard to impress. He still has his freak out moments, but we are definitely making process.

I would like to close this post with some excerpts from an article in the Saigon Times entitled Advices for traveling with Children.

"You need to tell them things would excite their curiosity, such as fairy tales that are connected to the attractions; this will keep them entertain and cheerful when touring".

And my personal favorite:

"To be aware of the formulation of bad habits such as eating too much junk foods and peeing at solemn places is also important".

I have to run and follow up with Olivia on these ideas.

5 comments:

Rachel Smith said...

Bummer about Jonah's passport, but I bet you're so excited to just have him as a legal "Beach". Have a great time at the resort and we hope you get some great family time in.

If you have to leave Bets and Bea with Jonah, know that Liv always has a place to stay here. We like having another "princess" around. :)

Again - we are THRILLED for you. The look on Betsy's face while she's holding Jonah is worth a million words. Ryan, don't worry. As Jonah loves on Betsy he'll see how Betsy loves on you - he'll come around.

Can't wait to see you all in person! Oh, and tell Livi that Abbie and Clara think she looks like a princess in her yellow sundress.

Love,
Rachel

Tracie said...

Beach family-

I am officially the biggest cry baby! Oh what tears of joy I cried for the four of you!!!

I agree with Rachel. Oh, the glow you have Betsy is... Amazing!

We're anxious to have you all home!

We will coninue to pray for you all! God is good, all the time!

Tracie and Family

Anonymous said...

We are so excited for you. What a journey you have taken us on the past few years. Betsy, can you smile any harder?? We can't wait to meet your new BeachBoy.
Our love,
Rex and Celene

Cy Alexander said...

I think it is totally hysterical how EVERY post so far on this page has mentioned Betsy's smile. I stared at that for 5 minutes too- stunning really. Sums everything up much swifter than Ryan's words...which are also wonderful. You articulate your experiences beautifully, especially considering the emotional typhoon you are in the midst of. Thank you (once again!) for sharing the most intimate places of your life with us, Beach family. We all learn and are inspired by your journey. And what a journey. My oh my. Enjoy your family time.
Love, love, love- the A's

Amy G said...

It's been my treat every night to visit your sight and get the update. Thank you for sharing your pictures and stories!

My prayers are with you. Merry Christmas and safe travels.

Amy Grabow