Saturday, December 29, 2007

The Dog Walker's Nightmare

The typical American sidewalk is a lovely sight to behold. On a crisp fall day it is a great place to stroll the dog around the neighborhood and take in some fall color. In the summer it is a path for bikes and blades and the perfect canvas for toddlers wielding chalk. Unfortunately in winter it is one other thing to be shovelled. But, when it is covered in snow, it can also be a smooth trail for a plastic sled. In a variety of ways, a sidewalk is lovely. It's a comfortable, convenient, cozy piece of home.


It has taken some time, and some grumbling, but I think I have finally come to terms with Vietnam's version of a sidewalk. Today Mom, Jonah and I went for a walk in the area around our hotel. I strapped Jonah in the backpack and down the sidewalk we went. And as I was walking, I decided to throw out my preconceived notions about sidewalks and just except the Hanoi version for what it was. In Hanoi, a sidewalk is really not for pedestrians. With space at a premium, the sidewalk has become a little bit of everything, from public restroom to barbershop.


First and foremost the Hanoi sidewalk is a parking lot. Scooters fill sidewalks at every turn. It is often impossible to take more than three forward steps on the sidewalk pavement before running into a parked scooter. Much of our walk today was spent in the street avoiding parked motorbikes. At lunchtime the sidewalk is transformed into a restaurant. Small stools that serve as chairs are pulled onto the sidewalk and noddle patrons crowd around bowls of pho to discuss the morning's events. In the late afternoon I've seen shoes being polished, nails being done and hair being cut all on the public sidewalk. And don't get me wrong, these events are not taking place on sidewalks in front of established businesses. They are taking place on sidewalks in random parks, on street corners and in front of historical buildings.


So, to avoid complaining about a decent place to walk, I've decided to except the Hanoi sidewalk for what it is.....a great place to people watch. And, if I happen to be stuck in the middle of the city with no bathroom in sight...............


Tomorrow our small group of adopting families is headed to the Perfume Pagoda. I've been told that the trip involves a four hour bus ride, a two hour canoe ride and a two to three hour hike up a steep path to the pagodas. It should be an excellent adventure. When we get back I'll let you all know if it actually smells like perfume in the Pagodas.


Until then-

Betsy

7 comments:

Unknown said...

Hi Betsy,
That sounds like a very adventurous first day alone! Good for you!
I am anxious to hear about the planes/trains/automobiles (Vietnam style) adventure to get to the Pagodas! Looking forward to photos of all that.
My heart goes out to you and our prayers continue!
Love Caroline

The Tommerdahls said...

Hi Betsy! Still thinking about and praying for your whole family!!! I hope that you can be home soon!

Blessings!

Paul Tommerdahl

Anonymous said...

Hi Betsy, Bea & Jonah, Now that Ryan & Livi are home, I can't be in such close contact with you thru Skype - but you sure do make us feel like we are there with you with your great descriptions of Vietnam. You are going to have to write a book. Livi and I had fun in the snow yesterday - nice to have thme home but sure wish you are were here as well. We are praying fervently that the visa come through very soon. Love Karen

Kelli Berg said...

Betsy, Bea & Jonah -
It was great to see Olivia and Ryan at church this morning. Everyone is SO EXCITED to see the rest of your family, hopefully, soon! We'll continue to pray for the visa situation. It's great to read that you are still at least able to go out and about sight seeing - I can't wait to read about the Pagoda adventure. We'll take good care of Ryan & Olivia for you while you are gone!

Gotta go, the Vikes are on soon! Don't worry the Packers are winning right now in the 3rd quarter (31-13).

Take care!
Ryan,Kelli,Caden,Carson & Claren

Cy Alexander said...

Ryan (since you can actually read the blog posts now)- welcome back to America... seems like a very sterile place when one returns from Asia. Thank you for all of your blog posts and pictures. You done good daddy. Let's talk on the teli soon.

Betsy- You are beautiful and you are brave (much like Jennifer Garner on Alias). May the good Lord protect and keep you, Bea and the babe until the Visa stars align.

We love your family so stinkin' much-
Jenn, Ry & Cy

Tracie said...

Betsy-

It's the perfume pagodas a kiask at the Mall of America?

It was wonderful to see your husband this morning and get an verbal update. Oh, to someday look back on your journey.

Oh, by the way, Gunner says today while leaving church, "I can't wait to meet that little Jonie". He speaks for us all!

We miss you terribly!

Tracie and Family

Anonymous said...

Hi Ryan and Betsy,
I've just finished reading through your blog. It's very moving to read about your journey to Jonah. However, after living in Asia ourselves, we know the experience of dealing with government red tape (and it doesn't matter what government you're dealing with--they all are experts at creating a maze of obstacles to overcome!) God is greater still and His purposes will be accomplished. We will add our prayers to those of your friends and family. Love, "Aunt" Denise and "Uncle" Dennis